My friends and their men!

In my c.o.l-circle of love-I have many who are facing trials due to the same old thing….men ! Some ARE unloved by their own, some FEEL unloved by their own, and some just WANT one of their own! Isn't it funny how we grow up thinking about our prince charming and some of us are lucky enough to marry him! But then there must be a whole story behind "and they lived happily everafter" but no one has been brave enough to write that book! It would be a story of drudgery, security, friendship, nagging, reminding, pure joy, highs, crying, sadness, and then, only if your very lucky, redemption!  There are some chapters that would speak about the trials and events that came and bound you together taut as a tightrope. Then there would be chapters that suggest you carried "it" on your back alone and the loneliness that occupied you brought you to the very depths of pure darkness.  (These times are what prompted this blog!)And yet, like mother Eve, we carry on. We conquer. We cow girl up! We go and do! I know this about women: We hold on tight to our love because once we sever that, it is gone forever. So we are oh so careful to hold onto that love tightly and do not let go of it until we are forced too. Then once we let go, it is gone forever! I love these women in my life. They are strong, good, true women and yet these amazing men don't see it. So I hold on the the old adage of "can't live without 'em, can't shoot 'em! Okay, go and do.